Saturday, January 21, 2012

Welcome, Isidore!


I gave birth to our fourth son, Isidore Felix Heckman, on Tuesday, January 17.  The birth was amazing.  It was such a different experience from giving birth in the US.  Here in Norway, natural childbirth is much more supported and encouraged than it tends to be in the US.  I was attended to exclusively by midwives (the Norwegian word for midwife literally means "earth mother"), who listened to the baby's heart with a wooden instrument rather than an electronic fetal monitor, and who, rather than constantly measuring my "progress," told me that I know better than anyone what's happening with my body and should let them know when I feel close to giving birth.

I labored in a tub of warm water.  I loved it--it was relaxing and provided wonderful pain relief.  I ended up giving birth in the water as well--it was such a beautiful experience.

 




The boys are thrilled about their new brother.  They adore little Izzy and, though Sergio still has some things to learn about babies, Jonah and Oscar are both amazingly sweet and gentle with him.  They both spend long stretches of time just holding him quietly and admiring him.




 

 


My parents are here from Minnesota.  They planned to come in time to watch the kids while the baby was being born, but they arrived from the airport just minutes after a very helpful neighbor had already rushed over to watch our boys and we had already rushed off to the clinic.  We were really surprised that arriving two days before my due date didn't get my mom and dad here in plenty of time...My other babies had all been born about two weeks late, so I just figured that my oven baked at a lower temperature and that this baby would also come well after my due date.  At any rate, Grandma and Grandpa are very happy to have gotten here in time to meet Isidore, their 18th grandchild:


Thanks to all of you who sent us congratulations and good wishes.  Baby Isidore sends you a big "Hello!"

Sunday, January 15, 2012

The Best Birthday Ever!

Jonah had a fantastic 8th birthday yesterday.  He kept saying, "This is the best birthday ever!"

I made him a cake on Friday that he was very pleased with.  We decorated it with characters that I cut from a Super Mario poster and that Davin laminated:

Super Mario Bros. Cake
Jonah's big day started with the breakfast he had requested--all-you-can-eat pancakes and bacon.  I'd been up late the night before making dozens and dozens and dozens of pancakes, but it was well worth it--Jonah deemed it "the best breakfast ever."  

Next we went to an amazing water park called Vannkanten.  We swam and played for nearly eight hours straight, stopping only for a really fun lunch ("the best pizza ever," Jonah thought):

Lunch at Peppe's Pizza
The water park was an extremely good time:

Sergio put in nearly a full day's work in this kiddie pool...

...Though he did take some time off to go on water slides with Davin.
Oscar and Davin (barely visible through the steam) in an OUTDOOR POOL (Brrr!)


One of the slides spits you out onto a giant disk where you spin around and around until falling through a hole in the center (only Davin got to try it--no little kids or pregnant ladies allowed).
A friendly dancing dolphin gave the kids guns...We weren't sure if anyone would believe us, but it's true!

The Birthday Boy with his Brothers
When we got home, we had dinner and cake and Jonah opened his presents, including a ream of paper which he declared "the best present ever!" (he loves drawing and is constantly running out of paper).  After spending a few minutes playing with his new gifts and drawing, we all went to bed and slept like LOGS.

Happy Birthday, Jonah!

The next birthday will be Baby Heckman's...I'm just four days away from my due date!

Friday, January 6, 2012

More Celebrations

We've been doing a lot of celebrating lately.  December 29 was my 35th birthday.  We went to the University Museum of Bergen.  Its Cultural History Collections include a super fun activity room for kids.  It's full of costumes and props, including a boat, a tent, a trolley car, a grocery store, and a big castle where kids can play:

Jonah in the Desert

Oscar Slaying a Dragon

Polynesians at Sea

A Horrible Witch

On New Year's Eve day, Jonah and Oscar, who are currently obsessed with Super Mario Bros., fashioned themselves really cute Mario and Luigi costumes (I helped with the mustaches).


Mario & Luigi

 This inspired Davin to bake them a pizza in the shape of a Power Up mushroom:

Power Up!

A neighbor girl came by to let us know that New Year's Eve is the night kids here dress in costume and go house to house singing Christmas carols and collecting candy.  She said that she and lots of other kids would be coming by later and that we should be ready with candy for them.  We weren't...Davin had to run to the store.  Luckily (and by bizarre coincidence), Jonah and Oscar were ready with their costumes, so when the girl came back later with her sister I sent the boys out singing with them.

An Important Norwegian Holiday Tradition:  Trick-or-Treating by Singing Christmas Carols on New Year's Eve
We got a total of about 50 costumed carolers, and only two little girls came singing a Norwegian Christmas song.  All the rest sang the first verse of "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" (in English).

We had a countdown to what the kids assumed was midnight, but was actually 9:52pm.  We made noise and shouted "Happy New Year" and kissed and drank saft out of fancy glasses.  Then we put the kids to bed.  It was perfect.  But a few minutes after we got them all to bed some neighbors came over and invited us to light fireworks with them, and that was even more perfect.  The boys just pulled coats and boots on over their pajamas and went out and had a really good time (although Sergio did excuse himself after a couple of sparklers and walk back home--he said it was time to go to sleep).
 

Davin and I saw a great fireworks display right out out our window when the real midnight rolled around.  It was a really nice way to welcome the New Year.


Yesterday was Sergio's 3rd birthday.  He's getting to be so grown up--he can already wink!


He's been planning himself an orange-themed birthday for months now.  Here's a photo of the all-orange dinner we served him:

Sergio's Birthday Dinner - Mac & Cheese, Clementines, Cheese, and Carrot Stars

And this is the cake I baked him according to his specifications (he asked for a yellow cake with white frosting and orange jelly beans):


HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SERGIO!

We'll have tons more to celebrate soon.  Jonah's 8th birthday is coming up on January 14, my parents will be visiting again starting January 17, and the new baby is due January 19!

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

God Jul! (Merry Christmas!)

We had a fantastic Christmas!  On Thursday we went to a big Christmas party at a nearby farm.  They served standard Norwegian Christmas foods (rice porridge, clementines, gingerbread cookies, gløgg), and we got to join in the traditional dancing and caroling around the (very huge) Christmas tree:


The kids had a blast jumping in the hayloft:



And Julenissen (literally "The Christmas Elf," the Norwegian name for Santa Clause) even showed up and gave all the kids chocolate bars:


On Christmas Eve (the big day for celebrating Christmas in Norway) I made caramel rolls from scratch for breakfast.  They were delicious and beautiful and (as I'm not the most accomplished baker) I really impressed myself and my whole family.  Here is a link to the recipe, just in case you want to impress yourself and your family.

I tried to celebrate like a real Norwegian by making risgrøt (rice porridge) with an almond in it for lunch.  Sergio was the one who found the almond and won the marzipan pig.  Jonah and Oscar (as you can see below) did not think this was fair:



Davin made our Christmas Eve dinner.  The kids helped him plan the menu.  The ham, scalloped potatoes, asparagus, and rolls were Davin's idea.  The boys came up with the macaroni and cheese, buttered spaghetti noodles, pears, carrots, and chocolate.  Look how beautiful it was:



After dinner, Julenissen really did bring presents to the door, just like we'd heard he would.  He was, however, wearing a mask, which led Oscar to speculate that maybe he wasn't the real Santa, just a really nice man who likes making people happy and doesn't have any kids of his own.  In any case, Oscar thought it was really great of him to bring them presents.


Sergio has been saying for weeks that Santa was going to bring him an "oransje" cake for Christmas.  He's obsessed with the color orange, and oransje (pronounced "oh-RAHNJ") is the Norwegian word for it.  His plan was that we would put a candle on the oransje cake and sing "Happy Christmas to you / Happy Christmas to you / Happy Christmas, Dear Sergie / Happy Christmas to you!"  And what do you know?  It happened just like that.  He kept squealing, "Just what I wanted!"

Sergie with the oransje cake Julenissen brought him (and sporting face paint, also compliments of Julenissen)

Below is a picture of me in front of our Christmas tree.  I'm including it because I'm a little over eight months pregnant now and I've been getting requests for photos that show my belly.

Me, 36-and-a-half Weeks Pregnant

Here are my favorite ornaments from our tree--the Santa ornament was made by Oscar, Jonah made the "gingerbread gentleman" (complete with top hat and cane), and the last one is a tin of liver paste:


On Christmas day, the kids opened their stockings, we went to Mass, and we gave each other our gifts.  Then we spent the day relaxing and playing with the new toys.  In fact, the kids don't have school this week, so that's how we've been spending most of every day since then as well.  We've been doing things like playing with Play-Doh, playing way more Super Mario Bros. than I approve of, and building elaborate courses for Hex Bugs (a super fun toy that arrived in an amazing package full of gifts from my family in MN): 

Hex Bug Course - First Bug to Find its Way out Wins!

I hope all of you are enjoying this Holiday Season as much as we are.  We wish you Love, Peace, and Joy.

Friday, December 16, 2011

Norwegian Christmas Traditions

Norway is totally transformed at Christmastime.  Nearly every house has candles or white lights in the windows (I've seen very few colored Christmas lights).  Here in Bergen, they set up "The World's Largest Gingerbread Village" and put huge Christmas trees up all around town, including IN the lake at the center of the city:

Juletre in Lille Lungegårdsvann, Downtown Bergen
 
The grocery stores are transformed, too.  Starting in November, regular foods (milk, flour, etc.) appear in new Christmas packaging, and lots of special Christmas foods show up on the shelves.  Here are a few examples:

Julebrus - Christmas Soda

Julepølse - Christmas Sausage


Juleøl - Christmas Beer


Oscar discovered another important Christmas product at school a couple weeks ago.  It was a snowy day and they took the kids up into the mountain just behind the school and made a bonfire.  They ate lunch around the fire and drank something called "gløgg."  It's spiced with cinnamon, cloves, and cardamom and it's served warm.  Oscar's bonkers about it.

Gingerbread (pepperkaker) is huge around here at Christmastime, both for eating and for decorating (making ornaments, gingerbread houses, etc.).  Jonah and Oscar have both spent whole days at school doing nearly nothing but baking gingerbread cookies.  It's common here, even in the older grades, for regular academic lessons to come nearly to a halt during December to allow the children to instead make and do things for Christmas.  Jonah, for example, visited the gingerbread village with his class yesterday.  Today they're all going ice skating.

Oscar had something called "Nissefest" (Elf Fest) at school yesterday.  When his teacher told me  about it she said, "So if he has a Santa costume or a little red Santa hat he can wear those, otherwise just dress him in red clothes."  Since (of course) he doesn't have a Santa costume, I sent him in a red sweater and thought I'd done a great job.  But when I brought him to school I saw I'd made a huge mistake.  Nearly every single child was dressed in an elaborate elf costume (some complete with fake freckles).  I didn't have my camera with me, but I found a photo of another preschool's Nissefest online to give you an idea:

A preschool Nissefest

One very important Christmas tradition in Norway is "going around the Christmas tree."  Everyone holds hands and dances around the Christmas tree while singing Christmas songs or carols.  Oscar did it at school yesterday, Jonah will do it with his class as well, and people all over Norway will do at their own Christmas celebrations. 

Jonah told me that at school he learned that here in Norway Santa brings the kids their presents after dinner on Christmas Eve, while the kids are still awake (!).  He comes in the front door and asks, "Are there any good children here?"  This was very surprising news for me, but I asked around, and apparently it's true.  Sometimes, though, Santa's in such a hurry that he only has time to leave the presents outside the front door and ring the doorbell.  I'm interested to see what will happen at our house...


I've also been told that in the days leading up to Christmas I should be prepared for carolers who might come to the house dressed in costumes and expecting candy.  It's something like America's Halloween.  I find this really fascinating.

But the tradition I'm most excited about involves Norwegian rice porridge (which I think is delicious, by the way).  Apparently, all of Norway eats risgrøtt (rice porridge) on Christmas Eve day.  I'll make it, too.  It's eaten commonly throughout the year--served with sugar, cinnamon, and a dollop of butter--but the difference on Christmas Eve is that a single peeled almond is added to the pot.  Whoever finds the almond in their dish wins a marzipan pig:




Here, like in the US, people do a lot of baking at Christmastime.  Unfortunately, this is only exacerbating the already crippling NORWEGIAN BUTTER CRISIS.  Maybe you've heard about it.  If not, you can read about it here.  We use a lot of butter in our house, so this has been pretty rough on us.  Luckily, after two weeks of searching, Davin found a store on Tuesday that had some Belgian butter and was able to stock up.

In other news, we got a lot of snow here recently, but it's almost completely melted by now (and the weather is back to the usual--lots of rain).  But the cold weather allowed me learn about another Norwegian custom:  leaving babies outside in their strollers to nap--even in the winter!  I went to pick Oscar up one day and found a baby (about one year old) crying in his stroller just outside one of the doors to the school.  He was all alone.  I thought he must have fallen asleep while his group was out playing and had been forgotten.  I quickly wheeled him inside, thinking the staff would be mortified when they realized he'd been left out, but they only said, "Oh, did he wake up?"  It turns out they consider it more healthful to have the children sleep in the fresh air rather than indoors passing viruses to one another.  I looked into Norwegian pneumonia rates, and they're no higher than the rates in other developed countries, so probably it's a fine way of doing things, but it still feels pretty shocking to me.

The snow was exciting, though.  It made the mountains near our house look really beautiful:


 


And the kids were SUPER excited about sledding.  There were maybe four snowy days in a row, and every day of it, I'd drop Oscar off at school and he'd sled there until lunchtime.  After lunch he'd go back out and sled again until I picked him up.  The hill in the schoolyard was always crowded with 3-5 year olds on sleds.  Each day right after school, Jonah, Oscar, and Sergie would sled together near the house until dark, then come in and drink hot chocolate or gløgg.

This is the type of sled usually used here.  Oscar's using his to catch hail,
which he explained will definitely be clean enough to eat.

Wheeeeeeee!  (Jonah, Oscar, and Sergio)